In the six Greek villages on the island of Marmara, ancient Proconnesus, the wedding songs, which they call nyphikata or nyphilia, are in essence songs of love and passion. Like all the Greek songs of this type, their roots are in ancient Greek songs sung in a similar wedding context (hymenaios, epithalamia, katakoimitika etc.), and their main purpose is to praise the young couple, and to wish them well-being, happiness and a long life together. These songs accompany every wedding custom and ceremony, and have a very positive impact on the mental state of the bride and groom, but also of everyone present, moving them, advising them, praising them, and indicating their new position in society. Intensely poetic, elegant, expressive and making use of symbolic words and allegories aplenty, the popular poet guides the couple along the new path they are embarking upon.
The bridal songs of Maramara, as genuine poetic creations, refer to every moment of the wedding, from the first meeting of the bride and groom through to their betrothal and from there to the end of the wedding feast. The emotions they express are mixed. Joy, happiness and pleasure at beginning a new life, but also sadness, sorrow and melancholy at being separated from parents, especially the bride from her mother.
They have different melodies, depending on their content, which is slow, lyrical and sensual at times, sometimes sad and melancholic, other times frenetic and almost Dionysian, usually played to a four-beat rhythm (syrtos) to be danced to at the wedding feast - as is the case with this song. Almost all the songs consist of couplets which exude beauty and light, lyricism, imagination and exaggerated imagery. In the past, every islander knew countless couplets of this sort by heart, since many had become associated with marriage and were customarily sung at wedding celebrations. Needless to say, the women took the lead here, and this remains true to this day in communities with roots in the Sea of Maramara area (Neos Marmaras, Pyrgadikia, Sarti, Ammouliani, Ouranoupoli, Nea Palatia, Amarynthos, Limni, and elsewhere). Still, those with a talent for it would improvise new couplets relating to the families, talents, beauty, and personalities of the bride and groom.
This song, which is danced to the steps of the local ‘jumping’ version of the syrtos, consists of fifteen-syllable couplets with thirteen-syllable interjected gyrismata, and praises the bride and her unsurpassed beauty. It is followed by an eight-syllable tsakisma which, semantically unrelated to the rest of the song, occurs in various dance songs from Asia Minor. Two similar wedding songs were recorded in Neos Marmaras and included on the records Popular Winter 7 , A1 (1993) and Popular Winter - 10 Years, A2 (1990), compiled and curated by Giorgis Melikis.
Theodor Kondaras (2022)
